I tend to worry about people I see around often who suddenly "disappear". In today's world anything can happen. So when you decide to tune out for say a week or longer, let us know. So we know you’re not in any kind of mortal danger. Or, even worse ;), in jail.

Let me start by telling you I'm going on a ski trip. Leaving tomorrow (woW>.
I'll be back in about a week, if all goes well. Anyway, just wanted you to know that I'm not in hospital with several bone fractures and that Cruella the Ville has not kidnapped me.

Great idea, little sis. I often wondered when people who usually post daily are suddenly gone for some time. So don't forget to post here in case you're leaving longer than a week. I'll pin this topic so you'll remember. ;)

Don't break your bones skiing, little sis. ;)

Just wanted to tell ya all that I'm back. I thought about you guys every day while I was having tremendous amounts of fun up on a snowy hill ~Wink~

Anyways, I'm here again. I'm knackered from the bus ride so I'm gonna take a very very very long nap in about two minutes. Or wait, maybe I should take a shower first. Uch!!! and brush my teeth. (realises she's got an extremely nasty taste in mouth)

welcome back...hope you didn't have too much fun w/o us ~Wink~ ...

...and teeth brushing is always a good thing ><()

im not gonna be gone for a week, but i wont be on at all this weekend, because im going to my dads. see yall monday!

I'm not really gone, and you'll find me online a couple of times a day, but I don't really feel like posting much... I just have a lot of things going on at the moment, which makes it hard for me to concentrate on all the topics that are discussed here.

But don't worry, I'll pop in every now and then. And maybe I'll be bored to hell tomorrow, and then I'll be posting my lazy ass off.

I'm going to be leaving today for an extended weekend away with some friends. And one of the rules is no computer. So I'll be gone until sometime Monday.

Have fun Pat!!!!!!!!

I won't be in a lot myself either. My parents are coming over for the weekend. It's fun, but it also means I have to sleep on the floor in my living room while my mum and dad sleep in my nice comfy bed.
I wish I had the money to buy a bigger house. :(

Aahw *huggles Tigerlily* I hope you're weekend will be allright...*huggles again*


I won't be online much during the week...I've just moved to a new house..and that house doesn't have internet..*cries*....

But I'll be online in the weekends...so don't worry if I don't post that much during the week....

Bye everyone, I'll be counting down the days until you come back. I like reading your comments ><

:IMS: I'm a cry baby today :(

I had been gone for quite a while because of this fricking internet connection <craze>
I hope it will stay now!!

For all the guys who will be gone: COME BACK SOON! (--)

hi guys,

I'm still sick. Flu turned into fever. I haven't felt this horrible in ages. Anyways: I won't be on much. I spend most of my day sleeping and when I'm here I'm too weak to reply to anything. I just took nose spray and it's made me all woozy.

I tried to walk to the supermarket yesterday and had to rest 3 times on my way over there. Which is bad, cuz my supermarktet is like 5 minutes away from my place.

I hope I'll be back full swing really soon.

It’s horrid when people are ill, even worse when you can’t help them. (N) I wish you a speedy recovery and look to the day you come back >< That’s all I think I can say. Charlie’s Shaft needs a good seeing to, so get rid of that flu ASAP (Winker)

I'm taking some time off from the board. I have been extremely busy the last weeks so I wasn't around much. But now I realise that I haven't really missed it at all, so I think it's good to just take a step back for a while and see what happens. So you might see me in a week, 2 weeks, or even the day after tomorrow if I've discovered that I can't live without you either.
Bye! *waves*

:( I hate this thread with a passion its full of evils from the real world about people saying goodbye. Come back soon Hestia :wave:

Jo, you're absolutely right hun. You really should take some time for yourself after all that busy busy school stuff and all. And destress. (Rolly)
Hey, but if you feel like popping in and discuss lost with us. Don't hesitate.
I do hope you get back soon enough, for I will certainly miss you.

Hmm.. I'll be gone; for like; probably ever. *shrugs* I doubt anyone will actually read this; but it's been really hard for me to be here; where everyone is part of a 'group' and pretty much.. Completely ingnores me. I mean; if this board was like; a base off of Cyn's; then I find it hard to beleive.. I mean; I was a member there for a month after it was created until it got shut down; and even before then; I tuned in to see what it was about.. But coming here; I'm treated like a Newbie; and I feel completely pushed away. Like I don't belong here; and everyone is totally annoyed with me.

Well; I meant no offense by this.. So yeah.



Tanya

I'm sorry you feel ignored Tanya!
I hope you'll reconcider to come back, I'm sure gonna miss you ><

And Jo, I hope you'll be back soon ><

I too have to say that I’d be sad to see you go, I remember that you had started quite a few important threads on TDP like the members pictures, that thread was essentially to me getting to know everyone of the board, it was huge and trying to remember everyone was so hard, but that thread was really helpful. ><

Its true that this board is here because Cyn’s was shut down, it was hard, we had no notice and members were being deleted and bad mouthed on the open board, people were divided and overall it wasn’t nice. It took everyone here at D and F weeks to get hold of as many ex DP members as possible to let them know the family was still here. But after a few days it was clear that not everyone could be tracked down, after a load of work D and F got into goggle and on several Dom/Lost/Blogs sites as affiliates. I was sad that so many members told me that they wouldn’t be able to join or rather post on D and F because of loyalty to Cyn, although it was touching to see it was also depressing as it was clear the old group would never be whole again.

One of my primary ideals is that anyone can be a member and post no matter what, providing they stick to the rules then we have no problem. Perhaps you are confusing too many topics and no replies as a sign that people are ignoring you, the board is huge and at times it feels like the board is too big for the level of members we have.

Your ultimately the best person to decide what the reason is, I know that I take it as a personal compliment and a show of character when people are able to post even though they might feel bad about TDP. It’s up to you if you decide to continue to post here or leave for good. I’d really like it if you decided to stick around and give it a bit more time. Your as much as part of this team as anyone else (Rolly)

Don't go.... I WILL MISS YOU!! :pups:

Hi Tanya,

I'm not annoyed with you at all. Allthough it might have looked like that. I sometimes find it hard to interpret written text. Just by reading something it can sound nasty but it is not at all meant like that. Hmmm, kinda hard to explain.

I know it can be hard to become part of the group in the beginning. Probably because of the unwritten rules and stuff. That can scare people away. There's not that many of those here but I've seen it on another board. I'm new there and it's huge and very hard to get people to notice you. And you feel like you're doing all kinds of things wrong. But I found out that people know who I am even if it doesn't look like that. It's probably the same here.

I feel like I belong to this board now and am very happy about it.

But I understand. It's often difficult to get into a cirle. In the virtual life just as much as in real life.

I do hope you reconsider.

Hey Tanya

I understand what you mean. I was a member of Cyn's board for I think about a year. I had a great time there and I miss a lot of members.
I'm still wondering what happends to Linds...... I think nobody knows her here. I haven't seen 'Belladonna' around I guess, she always made me laugh with her and Kellys posts. But things change, and I'm glad I see a lot of people over here, who I thought I lost. But if you try to stay, I promis you you'll find your place here.

>< Lin

ooohhh, dont goooo!!! I'll miss ya.

I haven't been on around here as much as i used to. I have to agree, its just not the same as TDP.

I didn’t know Cyn very well and knew the dom project even less, but from the sounds of it she shut the place down without any notice and left everyone in the lurch, that doesn’t say very much about her to me.



I think D and F is a good place to meet people and have a laugh, Knuxs did a kind thing doing this, and I’ve never seen him or the mods let any members down. Please don’t hate me for saying this its only how I feel and see things as a outsider. :red:



As for the other people cant you just ask them to re join here, its not like the dom project is coming back any time soon.

Tanya, I'm sorry to see you go, but I do understand you. However, D&F couldn't possibly be the same (or a continuation) of TDP, because it is not Cyn's. I did have my doubts about joining this forum too, when I was asked it. But Knuxs has made it quite clear that this MB is in honour of the old TDP-members. He has made this for us, who didn't want to lose their friends because of the massive problems Cyn was experiencing.
The community is different, because there are so many of the TDP-regulars missing... I was just getting the status of TDP-regular when that board was closed down, and it had taken me almost a year. Building a community needs work, from every member, moderator and the Admin.

[/end of sermon]
Is the spot for Board-Preacher still available?

Ah, and as you can see, I'm back from my time away. Maybe I experience spiritual enlightenment, to be able to write such a reply.

Guys, my modem broke at home. So can only come here when I'm at school. Hopefully see you soon!
(--)

Still broken. I miss you guys!!!!

Aww, I'm missing you too, Lin! :hugy:

Hope modem will be fixed soon.

I miss you three!!!!!!!!!! (--)
Come back soon!

Oh my god, it can take a wee :NO: k!

:groan: computers are such pains at times!

Hope to see you back soon (Rolly)

Can't believe how much I miss you guys!!!! And there's so much goining on in my life. I want to tell it!!! But can't.
Stupid stupid versatel!!!!

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, i can't stand it anymore!!!!!v Missssssssssss you!!!

Ahw.... I miss you too, I hope you're computer will be ok soon! :hugy:

So, I think you'll see that I'm back. Yet it doesn't feel really for me. Like it's been to long I've been here.
But it's ok to be back... (--)

Hey guys

I'm having major problems finding an internship - the thing I often hear is that I don't have enough workexperience - so in general I'm not too well at the moment. As as result, I don't feel like doing anything, including posting on the board. I'm just bored out of my wits, which is quite depressing. So you won't see me much until I'm a bit more happy. It just feels like everything's going wrong. Blah...

Oh that really is big time blah.
So with internships it's a bit like other jobs. It's like a vicious?? circle you can't get out of. Nobody wants ya because you don't have experience and you can't get experience because nobody wants you. It sucks!!!! (Grrr!) I wish I could help you out.

Not gone for longer than a week just a couple of days I think. Going to visit my boyfriend... :fly:

Have fun, Doxy. :Wink1:

Aw, sorry to hear that, Jo. (--) I understand that you are not in a posting mood right now, though. I wish I could really help you. I'm going to miss you around the board. :hugy:

Well, I guess I'm back again. Still no internship in sight, but I got everything on track, somehow... I'm bored out of my wits, most of the time, so I'll pop in regularly to be the all-seeing Moderator.