Describe your perfect partner, who are they like, what do they mean to you, what do they look like, what would you like the most about them, what are their values, what would they do that makes you so happy?

Well, I don't want to describe too much, b/c you never find what's in your head.
He's got to have humor, and he had to have some goals in life, what he wants to do with his life, a have to have a job he really likes and loves to work for. Ambitious. It would be nice if we share the same thoughts about things, life and stuff. And he is not afraid to give 'us' a change in the future. He has to go for it the way I do.
Looks......hmmm :thinky: I like dark eyes and hair. But I also fall for guys who are blond but that's always after I get to know him, and that's what it's all about after all. ~Wink~
Of course I could go on and on what I like about a guy and what I would like to see in my perfect partner. But then I describe to much, and will never find that guy who’s on that long long list.

well, let's see.

I'm looking for someone who can be my best buddy. I don't know, just somebody who I can act silly with, but also have a serious conversation. Someone who shares my views, but not all of them.
Probably an easy going person. People who are extremely stressed all the time drive me crazy.
I like him to be outgoing, but not too much. (Cuz I'm not very fond of people who want to be the center of attention ALL the time. You know, those people who think the world revolves around them. UCH)
Somebody who doesn't have every thing pre planned. Waking up in the morning and driving off to where ever is fun too.

Having a goal in life is good. However, I don't think I have a very clear goal myself, so it's wrong to want my partner to have one.

It basically comes down to me preferring someone who enjoys life. Somebody who want to see the world but also likes his own back yard.

Looks don't really matter to me. Neither does age.

Now this is my realistic view on the guy I'd like.
But actually I'm really looking for a handsome, guitar playing, kilt wearing, Scot with a sense of humor who has a dog and likes kids. His name doesn't have to be Billy. Unless you know a guy like that named Billy :devil2:
Seriously: I do have a thing for Scots.

OK guys, if you know a person who fits the profile, send his e-mail address to me and I'll contact him.

I fall for anybody who makes me laugh to be honest! I might not find them that great looking but if they make me laugh I still like them. Someone who can handle my random nature because I'm just one of those people who comes out with the most random things and laughs at anything (I don't want them to be scared off when I'm miming playing violins when I'm listening to music, yes I DO do that lol)

He doesn't have to be mega-successful and have loads of money, but I wouldn't be keen on someone who couldn't be bothered to work.

As for looks, I normally go for brunettes, but I have liked blondes before so it depends on the person. Blue eyes are good but again I'm not that bothered.

Humor is very important to me, but he should also know when to be serious. He would also have to respect me and I wouldn't like it if he'd try to change me in any way. He should also have to be strong, someone who I could count on in hard times and someone that doesn't run away as soon as things get hard in any way.
I'd like him to have his own hobby's aswell, I think it's good if you both have things off your own, you don't spend every minute with eachother. He should respect the fact that I need to be on my own every now and then.
I'd like it if he is into traveling as much as I am.

I don't really care about looks. But he should take care of himself.
Eyes, smile and hands are important to me.

How can he make me happy? I'd like to find a guy who's there for me, someone I can walk with, just holding hands or lay together on the couch watching a movie. Someone I can laugh with and who's there for me when I'm crying. Someone I can trust, that's how he could make me happy.....

But my friend ussualy says that I'll never find a boyfriend if I keep thinking like this, I have to many demands she says.... :unsure:

well, in the end it's all about chemistry. Someone can be extremely good looking and seem absolutely perfect, but if there's no chemistry it will never work. I wouldn't be at all surprised if I end up with a person that I never would have thought of.

well, he would have to make me laugh. like seriously, pee your pants, crying laugh. thats high on my list. and, im random and crazy some times, and he would have to be able to deal with that, or be random and crazy with me. of corse, he wouold have to know how to serious. he has to be nice, and gentlemanly, like opening doors for me (not like car doors, i can do that myself (Rolly) ) but like when he talks to say my parents like have manners and things of that nature. he would be my best friend. the one that i tell everything to (thats what it should be with everything) and that i be myself around. i wouldnt want to have to pretend with the one who im spending the rest of my life with. he couldnt be uptight, i would hate that. and he has to be able to take a joke! i hate it when people say hilrious stuff, but they cant take a joke themselves.

looks:
well, i would like him cute. lol. i like them tall, well atleast taller than me, and im around 5' 9'' ish. i like them with dark hair and dark eyes, but redheads and blondes are also very cute. and he wouldnt listen to rap. rap is crap. lol i like 'emo' music, like taking back sunday, but i like indie pop/rock too, and oldies. ok this is like stero-typing at its worst, but i like it when they are 'preppy' :-/. like hollister and abercrombie, or like surfer-ish. or when they have their own style and doesnt care what anybody else thinks. i think that is hott.



ok my chances of finding a guy like that is like nil.

id want somebody i can actually hold a conversation with. i see girls who go out with boys just because theyre attractive and they probably dont have a thing in common. and hed have to be funny and smart. and be interested in the same movies and music (i could talk about that kind of stuff with ANYONE). hed have to be really nice. if he was ever mean to me or my friends HES GONE. ive learned that from my friends' past experiences.

looks: im not shallow, but id definitely want him to be attractive. i LOVE green eyes and dark hair. hair style doesnt matter. as long as he doesnt copy everyone elses hair, id be happy. id want him to be taller than me. nice legs, athletic (soccer or something) and no guys who listen to rap, either. it is poo, just as Kimberly said. i dont know about the whole "rocker" thing. i think its kind of overrated, but if he likes the same bands i like, that would be great!

what makes me so happy: hes nice to me and i can tell him anything.

wooo, yea like ill ever find THAT guy. lol

It's kinda hard to describe this. What is my ideal man? Well, the ideal man is the one you fall in love with, and you just cannot know what he is going to look like. It will just happen, and when you fall in love, boy will it hit ya, and boy will ya know it? :o

To be honest physical attributes do not really come into it. The blokes I have fallen for have been different ages, different physiques and different hair colours, and just different people. So I simply do not have an ideal man physically. (woW>

However, I have an ideal weakness: they have to intrigue me. Right now I have met this guy who intrigues me more than any bloke (at least in real life) for a very long time (at least six years). He had really curly hair and now he is a skinhead, but it makes no difference. I am hooked again. But he is really intriguing; actually into all sorts of wierd psychic stuff as well as being into astrology and being into boxing. And he has a great body. And he is a bit of a genius. I know this is a recipe for disaster (we're just way too similar), but here I go again.

Will I ever learn? No. :nany:

Kevvo

someone decent

first of all- he'd have to have a sense of humor. and make me laugh. he'd have to like at least some of the same music i do. (no rap, country, or jazz.) he'd have to be comfortable with himself, but definitely not cocky... and he'd have to have no problem with urine accidents, because i tend to have a lot of those. >W< and he'd have to be pretty open-minded, i guess. he'd HAVE to giggle: males giggling = :Eyebrows: . he couldn't be too uptight.. and he'd have to identify with his own race. it's required.


and as far as looks go: i really don't care. i seem to like chubbier guys for some reason. (it started in second grade.. *stare..*) but i like lanky guys too. i prefer red hair over anything. and he couldn't be anorexic (hey, it happens) because i inhale food. and he couldn't be too muscular because i think it's totally unattractive, but maybe a little on the pecs would be fine.


hmm.. i guess that's it.

were you referring to Jack????? #haha#

TYLER!!!!!! #haha#

Hmm... well, he would have to have a sense of humor. Share my love for music. Be willing to put up with my wierdness for the rest of our lives! He would have to share my values or at least be close to them and willing to compromise. He would have to want kids eventually. Looks aren't important to me, but if he were good looking, then I welcome looks! :Heart:

They have to be nice and touchy all the time, tell me they love me and my boobs all the time, :hee: they dont have to but it feels nice! Then they must NEVER forget my birthday, and i just woiuld like someone who wants to have me for me.

Then i'm happy :YES:

I like to have a manly man who occasionally forgets to shave. Or regularly forgets to shave...

As long as he's scruffy :lol:

Somone who likes all my quirky bits!!!

(and to make this list a lot shorter... 1 word...
Rich :P)

Someone who just likes me for being me!

the usual she has to be smart, beautiful (in my eyes) humorous, and she cannot be afarid to release her inner child.

so who actually has a boyfriend/girlfriend around here
i feel confused, this girl goes one direction, then she goes the other, she says she' ready but then she says i am not ready. i am sooo confused

We have a post called Love Life where we all talk about what's happening/not happening on the dating front!

I'm gonna update mine as I last posted my opinion like a year ago, and my tastes have changed slightly.

I still like them to be funny, and not take life too seriously. Someone who's spontaneous and likes to travel and do lots of different things. I get on really well with guys who have also got a creative kind of career (music, acting etc) because we have loads to talk about. I don't go for male dancers because loads of them are really bitchy! lol they're worse than the girls!

Looks-wise, I like them to be taller than me, but not massive. About 5'8 is good because I'm only 5'1. I don't really mind what hair/eye colour they have, it all depends on the person!

I'm really picky about guys so I don't come across that many that I REALLY like, but hopefully one day I'll meet someone who fits all the requirements lol. I've just realised my ideal guy sounds an awful lot like Dom.. but hey it's the truth.

my mistake, i guess i'll just have to post it there then