Simple enough. Are you a faithful person? :)

I've never cheated on the person I was going out with, but I have been the 'bit-on-the-side', one of my first boyfriends already had a girlfriend. The fling didn't last long, I didn't like sharing.

My ex did share a few kisses with another girl while he was on holiday with his mates, but he promises me he didn't sleep with her, and I believe him - he's a terrible liar - so I forgave him. He's still one of my better friends, even though I left him for my hubby. (I left him so that I couldn't cheat on him)

I've cheated once... I was 14 and my boyfriend and i were in the pub and he was very drunk and acted like an asshole, I got so pissed at him that i kissed this other guy. The next day i told my boyfriend and he got really angry and broke up with me. A few days later i found out he was already cheating on me with one of my friends for a few weeks >{>
I can laugh about it now, and so can he (Rolly) We sometimes see eachother in the pub again.
I remember feeling so guilty at that time that i promised myself never to do it again, and i haven't! (Rolly)

No I haven't, I wouldn't ever do it cos it's just wrong. I have a friend who has cheated on every single one of her boyfriends though and it annoys me because I strongly believe that if you're with someone, you're with them and them only!

Well, I think I never really have what I can call a real boyfriend. So I think I also never really cheated on someone. >W<

People who cheat annoy me. They just seem weak because they can’t be honest enough to say to the other person its over. It’s selfish and malicious. What makes me laugh is the way that people say they still love you and it doesn’t mean anything, to me if you truly love someone you’d have no need to cheat.

I know that humans are supposed to be wired to be attracted to many people, so you can pass on your genes as much as possible etc. But I still thinking cheating is wrong, although I’ve never cheated or been cheated on, so I’m not sure how valid my view is.

OK Rich, now you got me thinking about an annoying bird story again.
One of my co-workers just loves telling a story about a certain type of bird and searching for the best genes. He thinks it also works that way on people
Women always try to have babies with guys who have strong genes. But in the end they want a softer man to take care of their kids. It's a bit difficult to explain in English.

And as far as cheating and being cheated on is concerned, it probably happens more than you care to know. Once every year our company goes on a trip. And seriously: you do not want to know what goes on on those trips. Married people fooling around like there's no tomorrow. It's disgusting. Especially since they're working together. Uch, I wouldn't kiss any of my co-workers. I mean, you still have to work with them. That just feels pretty darn uncomfortable.

Am i the only one here, who ever cheated? (&*"£>
I hope you all wont think i'm a real bitch or anything now....

Nah hun, I don't think you're a bitch. I would never think that.

Owww, and I just thougt of something interesting.
From what point do you guys consider things cheating. Are you cheating when you kissed somebody else while you were drunk. So basically when it was a one time thing. Or do you think it has to go on longer to be considered cheating??

Thanks miranda (--)

For me, cheating is when you kiss someone else...
I think if you only do that when you're drunk, you shouldn't drink....

I can say that I have never cheated. I cannot be sure that I would never ever cheat in the future (if I have a sexual future), but I sure as hell have been cheated on. :)
OMG. I could go on and on but won't because it would take too long; but I am one of those gay blokes who has from time to time strayed into bisexual paradise. That means they have always to have a girlfriend, but you string along as second best because they are so hot. Boy did I learn my lessons the hard way; poor me-no actually it forced me to grow up.It's OK if you do not get emotionally involved (hard). Then you can just have great sex with a guy who is in basically quite straight. I have no regrets. God I can remember drooling at this postgraduate student in the States; God he is the bestlooking guy I have ever seen. Within, like a few months he was mine--we just fell into bed. (woW>
Yeh, he was bi, but I have my images of my time with him for the rest of my life.
He had a lady friend, but hell I got him some nights. #haha#

Yummy Yummy.

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